Perinatal Befriender – East Lothian

purpose and aims of the role

As a volunteer befriender with our perinatal support project you will provide listening and emotional support to parents who have low to moderate mental health issues or are identified as vulnerable to developing mental health issues in the perinatal period. The perinatal period is from pregnancy to baby’s first birthday.  This support may be through home visits, telephone calls,  group work or support to access other local services.

what will i be doing?

  • Offer regular listening and emotional support to reduce social isolation
  • Support mum with responses to her baby
  • Help mum take the baby outside of the home so they can access services they need – i.e. health services, shops, parks and children’s centres
  • Give mum support with issues which concern them, for example by signposting to organisations that can help with benefits and housing.

what skills can i bring to this role?

  • Someone who is able to empathise with the needs of families during the perinatal period
  • A genuine interest in the well-being of children and families
  • A few hours to spare each week
  • Reliability and discretion
  • Friendly and approachable
  • Non-judgemental attitude
  • Good communication and listening skills
  • Responsible and dependable
  • Personal experiences

what qualities do i need?

  • To have excellent listening skills
  • To have a non-judgemental attitude and approach to working with children and families
  • To be empathetic
  • To be able to treat all information in a confidential manner
  • Be friendly, helpful and understanding
  • Be enthusiastic, flexible, committed and patient.

when will i be needed?

  • Befrienders will spend a few hours each week with mum/family and attend all Aberlour training
  • Volunteer Befrienders need to be able to commit to the Perinatal Support Service for at least 1 year.
  • Volunteers need to meet with their befriendee once a week, with a minimum commitment of 3 hours per week.
  • This role is flexible and is available across daytime, evenings and weekends.  We aim to match your availability and can be flexible with the time you have available with a mum each week.


East Lothian

what will i gain from the role?

  • High quality training
  • Support from a team of dedicated staff
  • Make new friends and meet new people
  • Have FUN!
  • Attend social events.

what support will i be given?

  • Induction and child protection training
  • Befriending training
  • Specific perinatal support training
  • Matching support
  • Ongoing support and supervision

Additional Information

Due to Health and Safety requirements you must be at least 18 years of age to undertake this volunteering role.

For all roles involving regulated work with children and/or protected adults, Aberlour will require the applicant to submit a PVG Scheme Record or a PVG Scheme Record Update application.  This opportunity is subject to the completion of satisfactory references and successful registration on the PVG Scheme.

contact details

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