Blog: ‘It’s about realising young people’s potential’

Like it did for so many people, the pandemic changed everything for me.

I had worked in the music industry for almost 20 years, as a DJ, promoter and an agent, and lockdown upended that overnight. I was off work for almost a year and a half and started volunteering as a befriender with Aberlour.

I’d already come to feel that my time in the music industry had run its course and when given the chance to reassess what I wanted to do with my life, I felt a real connection to Aberlour and wanted to be part of what they do.

Three and a half years ago, I was offered a job with the early intervention team in the family support service and I embraced the opportunity.
 
My role focusses on helping disadvantaged children under 12 but, while the focus is on them, the work often involves the whole family. It’s all about that relationship and working with them, listening to them. Being curious and non-judgmental. Every day is different but it’s always about being there for the families so they can trust and rely on me.

It’s not without its challenges as often there is a lot of trauma experienced by families, but the rewards are undeniable. I form a genuine connection with people and it’s a privilege to be part of their lives.
 
In a lot of ways, my role is similar to when I worked in music and was helping young DJs achieve their ambitions. My job now is to help young people understand where they want to be in life, navigate the process, overcome the obstacles and get there. 

Ben
Aberlour family support worker

This article was written as part of the 'We are family' special edition supplement with the Sunday Post.