Can I foster if I’m single?

At Aberlour Children's Charity, the answer is a resounding yes! Single individuals can absolutely become successful foster carers in Scotland. We understand that single foster parenting comes with its own unique considerations, and we are committed to providing tailored support to ensure that both the child and the single foster parent thrive in a safe, loving environment.

Unique considerations for single foster parents

Single foster parents bring strength, independence, and a unique perspective to foster parenting. While being a single foster parent may mean you face challenges different from those of couples, it does not limit your capacity to provide a nurturing home.

• Building a support network: Single foster parents are encouraged to develop robust support networks that can include extended family, friends, and professional services. This network is essential for offering additional guidance, emotional support, and practical help.
• Flexible and independent decision-making: As a single individual, you can often make fast, flexible decisions tailored to your foster child’s immediate needs. This decisiveness can be particularly beneficial in emergency situations.
• Focused nurturing environment: Being single allows you to dedicate your full attention to your foster child, creating a stable and consistent environment where the child feels secure and understood.

Aberlour Children's Charity support for single foster parents

Aberlour Children's Charity values the important role that single foster carers play in the child welfare system. We offer extensive support to ensure that your journey in foster care is a success.

• Comprehensive training: Tailored training programs address the unique challenges of single foster parenting, covering topics from day-to-day care to managing emergency situations.
• Dedicated support networks: Our team connects single foster carers with peer support groups and local networks, ensuring you have access to shared experiences and professional advice.
• Personalised matching process: We consider your strengths and your home environment during the matching process. Many of the children we support come from diverse family backgrounds, and we work to align their needs with the unique skills and support systems of a single foster parent.