Welcoming a child

Practical steps to help children feel safe, comfortable, and valued from day one.

Welcoming a child into your home marks the start of a life‑changing journey. As a top‑level fostering agency in Scotland, we ensure that this transition is as smooth and supported as possible. Our comprehensive approach helps you prepare for the arrival, adapt to new routines, and provide a nurturing and safe environment right from day one.

What to expect when welcoming a foster child

The process of welcoming a foster child is both exciting and, at times, challenging. Here's what you can expect:

Pre‑arrival preparation: Before the child's arrival, our team will provide detailed information about the child's history, needs, and interests. This enables you to prepare a warm, welcoming space that suits their requirements.
Placement planning meeting: A key component of your fostering journey, this meeting involves you, the child's social worker, and our support team. During the session, everyone reviews the care plan, clarifies responsibilities, and discusses strategies to ensure a successful placement.
Gradual introduction: We arrange an initial, informal introduction between you and the foster child. This helps build trust and eases any first-day nerves for both you and the child.

How Aberlour supports you

Dedicated fostering support: A Supervising Social Worker is available around the clock to offer advice, address concerns, and assist with any challenges. This ensures that you never feel alone in the nurturing process.
Ongoing training and mentorship: Regular training sessions and peer mentor networks are available to help you stay updated on best practices in foster care and child wellbeing. These opportunities build confidence and preparedness.
Home safety checks: Our specialist team can advise on creating a child‐friendly and secure environment, ensuring your home meets all safety standards while remaining comfortable and welcoming.

Your role as a foster carer

Provide a safe and nurturing environment: Offer stability, care, and consistency that helps the child settle into their new home.
Maintain open communication: Work closely with our support team and the child's social worker by providing regular updates and discussing any issues as they arise.
Embrace flexibility and empathy: Understand that each child is unique. Adapt your approach to meet their emotional and developmental needs with patience and understanding.