Sandra and David's Fostering Story

It makes us better parents. It makes us better people.

We put a baby monitor in Stephen’s room when he arrived with us just to make sure he was okay.

Some mornings, he would wake up before the rest of us and, on the monitor, we’d hear these strange, rustling sounds.

When we went into his room, his bed would be empty and we’d find him hiding underneath.

What could a three-year-old boy have gone through that could terrify him like that?

He’s just adorable but has issues and can struggle emotionally. He’s very affectionate and bright but his development seems delayed.

When he came to us, he was lovely, trying to please with a big smile, but that was a front and, over time, we get hints of what his life might have been like previously.

He doesn’t like anyone even slightly raising their voice, for example, even in fun. He previously had issues sleeping, nightmares.

Families can come in all shapes and forms but home should be a safe place, secure and stable. If you can help a child who needs a home like that, why wouldn’t you?

We get as much out of it as the children. The love we get back, the knowledge that we’re good enough for them to trust us and love us and put their faith in us, is so rewarding.

It makes us better parents. It makes us better people.

Sandra and David*
Foster Parents

*Names changed.

This article was written as part of the 'We are family' special edition supplement with the Sunday Post.